Exit and Stay Conversation Assessment for Managers and HR TeamsThe same decision, before and after the resignation. What the timing costs you.
Thirty-eight original exercises put eight retention decisions to you twice — once while the signal is cheap to act on, once after the notice is in — and the report shows what the resignation did to your judgement, beside what it does to most people.
A cost, not a score, and the model answer with the difference written out
The Exit and Stay Conversation Assessment is a situational judgment measure of how a manager handles the conversation before somebody has said they might leave and the one after they have resigned. It measures reading the early signal, opening the conversation, what is actually yours to promise, owned follow-through, what the organisation learns, and what the timing costs that judgement.
Most retention training treats the stay conversation and the exit conversation as different subjects. They are not. The same eight decisions arrive in both — what a signal means, how to open, what you can promise, when to hold, who owns the follow-up, what happens to what you learned — and the only thing that changes is the price. Before the resignation the decision is cheap; after it, the same decision arrives with an offer on the table, a notice period running and a witness. This instrument puts each decision to you twice, interleaved so you never see the pairing, and scores the difference.
That difference is taken on the raw scale, and the report says why. A respondent who answers the way people typically answer already loses a few points between the two sets, because the exit conversation is where a manager is most tempted to promise; that ordinary cost is printed as its own line beside yours, never subtracted from it. Zero on your cost means the resignation changed nothing about the quality of your moves. It is you compared with you.
For every decision where your two answers diverged, the report puts what you chose beside what a stronger response contained and writes out the difference in a sentence authored for exactly that choice: yours protected the relationship, a stronger one also named who owns the follow-up. That is feed-forward at the level of process rather than a model answer left for you to reverse-engineer.
Counter-offers are never keyed as the right answer by default. The evidence on them is mixed and the exercises say what it turns on: whether pay was genuinely the whole reason, and whether the person is otherwise embedded. The keyed move on the pay pair is to say what you will ask for, from whom, and when the person will hear, and to find out what the decision turned on before asking for anything.
The report prints its own limits in full size. It does not predict whether anybody on your team will leave, it does not measure warmth or empathy, and the five competency placements are placements rather than numbers, because six to nine exercises cannot carry a figure and the reliability table says so instead of rounding one up.
What you walk away with
Whether a change in somebody is treated as an event to ask about, a mood to wait out, or a reason to guess about pay.
Whether the first question leaves room for the answer, and whether the conversation is held for a setting that can carry it.
Separating what you will do from what you cannot promise, including when the resignation is in and the promise is tempting.
Closing with an owner for each item and a date for the first update, and holding to the process that can actually change pay.
Whether what was said in the room reaches whoever can change it, or stays there, which is the commonest outcome.
Your graded quality before the resignation minus after it, on the raw scale, with the ordinary cost printed beside it.
Inside your report
Illustrative sample — your report is generated from your own responses.
Before minus after, on the raw scale. The dashed line is what a respondent answering the way people typically answer loses across the same pairs; your figure is read against it, never subtracted from it.
For every pair that moved, the report puts what you chose beside what a stronger response contained and writes out the difference in a sentence written for that exact choice.
Built for
- People managers who have had, or are about to have, a resignation on their team
- HR business partners who coach managers through stay and exit conversations
- Retention programme owners who want a measure that is not a survey
- Anybody who has said 'I will see what I can do' and wants to know what it cost
Find out what the resignation does to your judgement
38 exercises across five formats · about 40 minutes · the timing cost, every pair side by side, and one change with its re-measurement date.
₹899 (incl. GST) · assessment and full report, nothing further to pay
Frequently asked questions
A manager's judgement in the conversation before somebody has said they might leave and the one after they have resigned: reading the early signal, opening the conversation, knowing what is actually theirs to promise, closing with an owned commitment, and what the organisation learns. Eight decisions are put twice, before and after a resignation, and the headline is the difference between the two on the raw scale. It does not predict whether any named person will leave.
Your graded quality on the eight stay versions minus your graded quality on the eight matched exit versions, on the raw scale. Zero means the resignation changed nothing about the quality of your moves; it is you compared with you, not you compared with anybody. Beside it the report prints the ordinary cost, which is what a respondent answering the way people typically answer loses across the same pairs, so you can read your own figure against it.
No. Counter-offers are never keyed as the right move by default, because the evidence on them is mixed. The exercises say what the decision turns on: whether pay was genuinely the whole reason and whether the person is otherwise embedded. The keyed move is to say what you will ask for, from whom, and when the person will hear, and to find out what the decision turned on before asking for anything.
No, and the report says so in full size. It did not measure whether any particular person will leave, whether your own team is at risk, or your warmth, empathy or general ability as a manager. It measured your judgement on sixteen matched written situations and twenty-two supporting exercises, in one sitting, and it avoided every country's notice rules and entitlements deliberately.
About forty minutes for thirty-eight exercises across five formats. ₹899 in India, inclusive of GST, or US$8.99 elsewhere, one time, for the sitting and the full report. It is free to retake, and the report prints how far the cost figure has to move on a retest before the movement counts as more than measurement error.
Each one takes a single capability, puts you inside the situations where it is actually tested, and scores your choices against published evidence — with a report designed for that capability alone, not a template. They span hiring, compliance, education, operations and personal skill.
Browse the catalogue →Methodology: Thirty-eight original exercises across five formats: sixteen single-choice situations written as eight matched pairs, six select-every-that-applies exercises, six binary claims about the turnover evidence, five matching exercises and five ordering exercises. One response instruction is declared for the whole instrument and it is a BEHAVIOURAL TENDENCY instruction: every situation asks what the respondent is most likely to do, never what should be done, because the thing being measured is the judgement a manager actually exercises when somebody is thinking of leaving or has already said so. Construct statement: it measures a manager's judgement in stay and exit conversations - reading an early signal, opening the conversation, knowing what is actually theirs to promise, closing with an owned commitment, and turning what was said into something the organisation can act on - and specifically what the timing of the conversation costs that judgement. It does not measure whether any particular person will leave, whether the respondent's own team is at risk, the respondent's warmth, empathy, or general management ability, and it is not a prediction about any named individual. Scoring is a matched-trial within-person contrast. Eight underlying decisions are each put twice: once before anybody has resigned, when the signal is cheap to act on, and once after the resignation is in, when the same structural decision arrives at its most expensive. The two sets are matched on the decision, on the four moves offered, on the score gradient across those moves, on the share of items where the strongest move is to hold rather than act (three of eight in each set), on reading load and on option length; they are interleaved so that no reader sees the pairing. The headline figure is the difference between graded quality on the stay set and graded quality on the exit set, taken on the raw scale and never as a difference between two chance-corrected figures, because the two sets have different declared nulls by construction and that difference is itself a finding. It is printed beside the cost that a respondent answering at the declared answer priors would show across the same two sets, and the reader's own figure is read against that line. Overall quality across all thirty-eight exercises is reported separately, chance-corrected against a declared per-option answer prior authored on every keyed exercise, and is never folded into the cost. Every figure carries its standard error band at 68 and 95 per cent; the five competencies each carry a three-way placement rather than a number, because their assumed omega from six to nine items sits below .70, and that refusal is printed. An unanswered exercise leaves the denominator rather than scoring zero, an empty sitting scores exactly zero, and a matched pair with one half unanswered leaves the cost entirely. Counter-offers are never keyed as the strong move by default; the exercises say what the decision turns on. Keying sources: Lee and Mitchell (1994), the unfolding model of voluntary turnover; Holtom, Mitchell, Lee and Inderrieden (2005) on shocks as causes of turnover; Mitchell, Holtom, Lee, Sablynski and Erez (2001) on job embeddedness; Griffeth, Hom and Gaertner (2000) and Rubenstein, Eberly, Lee and Mitchell (2018), the meta-analyses of turnover antecedents; Hom, Lee, Mitchell and Griffeth (2017), one hundred years of turnover research; Allen, Bryant and Vardaman (2010) on retention misconceptions; Rousseau (1995) on psychological contracts and Robinson and Rousseau (1994) and Zhao, Wayne, Glibkowski and Bravo (2007) on breach; Klotz and Bolino (2016) on resignation styles; Spain and Groysberg (2016) on making exit interviews count; Finnegan (2012) on stay interviews; Hanisch and Hulin (1991) on withdrawal behaviours; Gollwitzer and Sheeran (2006) on implementation intentions; and McDaniel, Hartman, Whetzel and Grubb (2007) on behavioural-tendency response instructions. Every exercise is an original work written for this instrument. It reproduces no item from any published or commercial instrument, and it is not affiliated with, endorsed by or derived from any assessment vendor, certification body or named retention programme.